the take
Luke sent the chef flowers, Gen was the one who ended up holding them, and she responded the way any of us would: by texting him that he's a loser, and then texting him some more. then Joy's clothes ended up in the wash with the dish rags, "accidentally." our one-word review was "shady," and the caption is the follow-up question we can't let go of. we're not saying it was on purpose. we're just saying the timing was something, and "accidentally" is doing a lot of work. meanwhile, Sheetgate Luke is still talking to the chef.
this is the hosts' commentary and speculation for entertainment, not a statement of fact about anyone in it.
the backstory
This is from Below Deck Mediterranean season 11, episode 15. Deckhand Luke Brumer had already left the boat after the season's "Sheetgate" drama with bosun Nathan Gallagher, but he was still in touch with chef Joy Lefaucheur, and he sent her flowers. Stew Gen Lillie, who had her own history with Luke this season, was upset about it and texted him that what he did with the flowers was "extremely disrespectful."
Later, Joy's clothes ended up in the wash with the kitchen rags. Gen apologized and said she didn't mean to, but recaps point out she'd left a sticky note on the load, which made the apology a harder sell. Joy took it to chief stew Aesha Scott instead of confronting Gen herself.
Whether it was an accident is the question in the caption, and we're not answering it for her.
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transcript
auto-transcribed from the clip audio. speakers aren't labeled and there may be small errors.
- 0:00Luke, Sheetgate Luke is still talking to the chef and so, yeah, he's still talking to the chef.
- 0:08Stop. Is she still entertaining it?
- 0:11Yes. So he sends flowers to Joy. Gen's the one who receives the flowers. So she's like,
- 0:17oh, who are the flowers for? And then she realizes they're for Joy from Luke. So that,
- 0:23I feel like. Was she pissed? Obviously. She like started texting him just being like,
- 0:32you suck. Like you're a loser. Like, don't talk to me. And then she like kept texting him.
- 0:37And then she ended up washing accidentally Joy's clothes with the dish rags.
- 0:44Shady.
faq
- Did Gen wash Joy's clothes on purpose?
- Gen apologized and said she didn't mean to. Recaps note she'd left a sticky note on the load, so viewers have their doubts. In the clip, we leave it as a question.
- What episode of Below Deck Med is the laundry scene?
- It's season 11, episode 15, which aired on Bravo in September 2026.